It's my holidays and not yours!

You want me to promise you not to get haywired when i am there.

Do you know that you have hurt my feelings? You sounded like i am the sole person to be blamed for all the arguments. Don't you have a part to play as well?

It's my holidays. My holidays to relax and slow down the pace of life. Don't sound like this is just a holiday to visit you. Don't sound like i am a dependant girlfriend who needs your company all the time.

Please try to put yourself in my shoes.